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It has been years since I have made Sunny hit the dirt and go into panic mode, but that record is over today.
We all were having a nice lie down, it’s close to 90 degrees here. Sunny was with me, calm as could be. I got up and decided to carry an armload of wooden parquet tiles down the stairs, Sunny was next to me. Even though the stack was on a piece of plywood it was as though the plywood split (it didn’t) and the whole stack came crashing down next to and onto Sunny. He fled down the stairs flat as a pancake, crashed into the baby gate at the bottom and was out the door. Oooops. This would have scared any dog but it has added implications for Sunny since he remains cautious while indoors most of the time.
When I went out to see how he was doing he was giving me that wide eyed look that I was so familiar with. I stopped apologizing and said ‘get your frisbee’ his favorite game, and up went the tail, he pounced on a frisbee and then tried to get me to take it from him, his second favorite game. Whew.
Finding something that your dog loves and associating it with a verbal cue can come in handy.
A friend recently contacted me to get information for her father who was soon to be acquiring a puppy. I sent her Ian Dunbar’s resources and wished him well. Last night I received an email from my friend, this time informing me that the puppy was timid and afraid, did I have any information about that? It just so happened I did. I directed them to the Fearful Dogs website and sent her a copy of the ebook A Guide To Living & Working With A Fearful Dog which I wrote in 2008 to help people struggling to understand how to work with their fearful, shy, timid dog.
This morning while driving home from a yoga class I thought about ‘relief’. While in a particularly challenging pose, trying hard to breathe through it, I could not help but long for the instructor’s direction to move from that pose into ‘child’s pose’ a lovely, comfy stretch on the floor. We are repeatedly encouraged not to hurt ourselves but just find our edge and gently explore it. Once out of the pose that had me ready to fall off the edge, I exhaled with relief. Whether it’s physical discomfort or emotional suffering, it feels so good to have it end.
Imagine what it would be like to be terrified, truly terrified, on a regular basis and the person that you are suppose to connect with either ignores your fear, whether it’s displayed by cowering or snarling, or shoves you from behind into what you perceive to be the jaws of death. Now imagine the relief you would feel if instead that person acknowledged your fear, and gently led you away from the horror, reassuring you that all would be well.
There are many ways to help scared dogs, but the first step is to get the dog to trust you. Call it leadership if you like, it’s not my first choice of terms. Due to the guidance of trainers like Cesar Millan, too many ‘leaders’ view any refusal or reaction to their demands to be a challenge to their authority or that their dog is trying to dominate them. A fearful dog is just a fearful dog, doing what it feels it needs to, to protect itself. So whether it’s refusing to follow you down a flight of stairs or growling when you approach its crate, it’s just afraid, plain and simple.
I thought about what could be said to someone first embarking on the journey of working with a scared puppy that would be simple to understand and relate to. I came up with this-Think about your scared dog as if it were a young child, a girl perhaps, with chubby cheeks and big eyes that gaze up at you adoringly, and then see those eyes go wide with fright and concern. Treat your dog the way you’d treat that young child. Understand that their fear may not seem reasonable to you, but that doesn’t change its intensity for them. Consider how you would ease their fears and then take them away and think about how tomorrow you can make it a better experience for them.
We can never know what a dog is thinking but because we share the same part of the brain that processes fear, it’s reasonable to assume that we can imagine what a dog’s fear feels like. Hopefully few of us are ever as afraid as many dogs are, but try to imagine what a dog is feeling, and then offer them some relief.
It often happens that the dogs most adversely affected by punishment are the ones that end up dealing with it the most. Young dogs, inexperienced dogs, immature dogs, sensitive dogs, fearful dogs, aggressive dogs, all of which can be unclear on the rules of the games their humans are expecting them to play. All dogs can be adversely affected by punishment improperly applied but we’ve all run into the dog that isn’t stopped from wanting to continue to launch into all that life has to offer because of harsh words or physical corrections. Being told off when their nose gets too close to the cheese and crackers on the coffee table doesn’t stop them from checking for crumbs on the floor .
I board dogs at my home. When owners come with their pet for an initial meet & greet to determine if my set-up is appropriate for their dog I have the opportunity to see a variety of owner/dog interactions in play.
It’s not unusual for a good dog to be stressed when they arrive in a new place and are introduced to unfamiliar dogs. If a dog’s response to this stress is treated as if it’s bad behavior (e.g. jumping, growling), and the dog is reprimanded or physically corrected, the dog often becomes more stressed, and their inappropriate responses can escalate.
Untrained, inexperienced or immature dogs can fall victim to this type of treatment because they do not have the skills to know how to behave appropriately and as their anxiety level increases their behavior degrades even further. It’s a bad cycle and not obvious to many owners who attribute the failure of their dog to behave to the quality of the correction, so like someone shouting to someone who is deaf, they assume louder and more forceful is in order. Fearful and aggressive dogs are already suffering from an emotional overload that punishment only fuels.
You can stop raising both your blood pressure and your dog’s by changing your focus and noticing and rewarding appropriate behaviors instead of just being annoyed by the inappropriate ones.
Studies have shown that scents affect us in different ways, some make us scrunch up our noses and hurry away, others have us closing our eyes and taking in a deep breath in order to experience an aroma more fully. Scents can call up past experiences or emotions in our minds, in some cases more powerfully than words or images.
This week guest blogger is Anna Bettina Johnson. Anna is a Holistic Canine Practitioner, Nutritionist, and +R Trainer in Salt Lake City, UT who uses a variety of different approaches to help dogs feel and behave better. You can follow her on tweeter @HappyHealthyPup
A Holistic Approach to Fear
Knowing what to do for our fearful dogs isn’t always easy, as a professional, I always encourage people to ‘take a look at the big picture’ and set their pup up for success by ensuring their mental, physical and emotional needs are allowed to flourish. In the coming weeks here on the Fearful Dogs Blog I will address just a few of the holistic approaches I take with fearful dogs. These approaches will already assume that you have:
Taken your dog for a full physical and received a clean bill of health from your vet?
Contacted a Positive Reinforcement trainer or are using positive methods yourself?
In aromatherapy, specific essential oils are blended in a neutral base, i.e. water or oil. Essential oils, the pure essence of a plant, have been found to provide both psychological and physical benefits when used correctly. I often will use aromatherapy in conjunction with flower essences. I have found these two therapies to have the greatest results. Aromatherapy requires a little more caution on your part, two things we always recommend:
~ Do not use around cats. If you’re using a spray on your dog, be sure to spray in a room away from the cats, and not on a surface they generally walk on, as they can walk over the residue and ingest it when grooming themselves. If need be, you may spray a bandanna outside and then come indoors and tie it on your dog.
~ Let your dog choose the scent. With any new essential oil, open the bottle several feet from your dog and watch to see if he approaches it. If he turns his head, walks away or shows any of his normal stress indicators, do not use the oil. Also, please do your research before using a new oil, some oils are dangerous around animals, those include oils such as Clove, Juniper or Yarrow. Make sure all the oils you use are therapeutic grade oils.
Some of our favorite blends
We use sprays most often, so we have included our personal recipe for each. Sprays can used in the air, directly above or on your pup and also on things like bedding, collars, bandannas, etc. I also use the spray on myself before working with a very fearful or agitated dog, this helps him have a greater sense of calmness around myself, but also helps me step into the right frame of mind for working with him.
Tangerine & Marjoram: This blend has an almost sedative effect, great for animals with extreme emotional outbursts. Spray: 2oz. Distilled water, 10 drops Tangerine, 8 drops Marjoram.
Lavender, Sweet Orange, & Neroli: This blend is very reassuring and calming, helping to relax and comfort fearful dogs. Spray: 2oz. Distilled water, 8 drops lavender, 6-8 drops orange, 2 drops Neroli Lavender & Roman Chamomile: Relaxing and calming, this blend can be used before, during, or directly after a stressful time to help soothe and calm an agitated pup. Spray: 2oz. Distilled water, 8 drops lavender, 6 drops chamomile.
These are just a few of the ways I help calm, anxious, nervous or fearful dogs. We love these therapies because they are easy ways to help aid our pups in their journey to being happy & confident dogs. We know it can be overwhelming, especially when presented with lots of new information. We always encourage you to do what feels best for you and your dog & reach out or continue to educate yourself on things that feel right for you – Happy Training!
With my own fearful dog Sunny I use a combination of different approaches to work with his fearfulness. I understand that there is no magic cure that will fix a fearful dog, but there are many different options for owners to try, which may help their dog feel less afraid or upset. Remember that for long term success with a fearful dog any drug or remedy must be combined with a program of desensitization and counter conditioning. Keep in mind that a dog that feels better, is going to act better, so don’t forget their emotional well being.
This week’s guest blog was written by Amit Karkare a Homeopathic Consultant & Certified Bach Flower Practitioner. I asked him to share information about flower essences that are commonly used to help dogs suffering from trauma and fear.
BACH FLOWER THERAPY FOR A FEARFUL DOG
Fear is one of the basic emotions that every living organism experiences and our beloved pets are not an exception. Though dogs are often known for their courageous attitude, some dogs do face situations where they exhibit signs of fright, requiring professional handling. Unlike human beings, who are able to express their emotions in a refined manner, dogs can’t communicate their feelings in an explicit way, but a close observation of their behavior can lead us to significant information about their mental state. A dog may display his fear in varied ways: he may try to escape from the room, or may stay motionless, or can become intensely restless, or can soil the room by submissive urination, or might bark / growl at the fear-object. In extreme cases he can even become destructive or dangerous.
Bach Flower Remedies
Bach Flower Remedies are a collection of 38 plant and flower-based remedies discovered in the 1930s by Dr Edward Bach, a Harley Street physician. Each Bach remedy deals with a specific negative emotion, so we can select and take one or more remedies to match the exact emotion or reactive pattern. These remedies can help our animals get over their own emotional difficulties. They are completely natural and harmless. Flower remedies help to restore the peace and harmony in the energy of our pets.
As a part of any treatment, it is extremely essential to get the dog examined by a veterinarian, to rule out any signs of organic disease, which might manifest in the similar manner. Once it’s confirmed to be only a fear, it’s worth giving a well-suited Bach Flower Remedy a try. The selection of the remedy (-ies) is very simple and is based on the reaction pattern of the dog. Here are the most commonly used remedies for the fear seen in dogs:
Mimulus: Mimulus deals with fear of known causes. If you can identify the fear-object of your dog, Mimulus may help him to get over it. The commonly seen fear of loud noises or fire crackers in dogs can be relieved with Mimulus. Some dogs are afraid of water being poured on them, a fear also which calls for Mimulus, a perfect addition to bath time.
Rock Rose: Rock rose is indicated for dogs that also show fear but in an extreme manner – in a state of panic. Thus an intense fear of known or unknown reason, but manifested in a state of panic calls for Rock Rose. A dog which walks through the whole house on tip-toes in a cautious and wary manner, might be relieved with Rock Rose. The key to the choice of this essence is the intensity of the fear reaction.
Star of Bethlehem: This remedy relieves the state of sudden shock or trauma. A puppy, who has seen an accident or has attacks of fright, a dog who was mishandled by his previous owner, or the one who has escaped a situation of great danger may find relief with this remedy to help them get over the state of shock or emotional trauma.
Walnut: Walnut is the remedy for adaptation. If a puppy brought from a breeder or your friend’s house, shows signs of fear in the process of getting used to the new environment, Walnut aids in adaptation. It can also be used for a dog separated from his mother and exhibiting fear.
Rescue Remedy: This is not a different remedy but a mixture of five remedies that are used to help with trauma. This can be used if you can not decide which remedy to be selected or if the state of your dog is an intense one, such as during an emergency. The unique formula contains Star of Bethlehem for shock, Rock Rose for terror and panic, Cherry Plum for lack of self-control, Impatiens for agitation, and Clematis to counteract faintness and bemusement.
Two drops of the selected remedy (-ies) can be added to the watering bowls or food, that the dog will drink regularly. Otherwise, two drops (each) of the remedies can be added to a 30 ml bottle containing water and four-six drops from this treatment-bottle can be administered to the dog on regular basis (at least four times a day).
It can also be put directly in the mouth of your dog, if he allows. One can also drip few drops on the nose of the dog so that he can lick it off.
In case of emergency, where it is not possible to make the dog drink the medicine, few drops can be applied onto the back of the ears (being a sensitive skin area) which can get absorbed through the skin.
The remedy combination should be repeated until required. There would be no harm if you select an incorrect remedy or continue to administer the remedies even after their need is over. If any other pet drinks water from the same bowl, it should be fine, since the remedies do not modify healthy emotions.
If you would like to learn more about the application of Bach Flower Remedies visit
I never gave much thought to the risks of using corrections when training dogs until Sunny, my fearful dog came into my life. Even the casual ‘uh uh’ that I would use when one of my other dogs’ noses was getting precariously close to the cheese on the coffee table, would have sent him cowering off. I had to find ways not only to get this dog comfortable with me, but I also had to train him. How can you train a dog if you can’t correct inappropriate behavior?
I have come to realize that the answer to the question in most situations is that unless a dog has a crystal clear understanding of what is expected of them and been give the opportunity to practice it repeatedly, there is no disobedience. I may not like the behavior, I may want the dog to do something differently, but the dog is not being disobedient or bad. Some trainers might say that any behavior performed by a dog which is not what was requested of them, is due to ineffective training, the handler’s problem, not the dog’s.
I have more thinking to do on that one, but have learned from my scared dog that his failure to perform a certain behavior usually has to do with something making it difficult for him, something scaring or distracting him. In effect he is not unwilling, as much as unable, to do what I ask him to do. This does not mean that it is OK for him to not follow through when asked for a behavior, it means that I need to think about how to make it so he can perform the behavior, and we can practice it. Raising my voice, snapping his leash or some other form of correction would only turn him into the scared zombie I worked so hard to vanquish from the corner of our living room.
I provide kennel-free boarding in my home. The folks who bring their dogs to stay with me are among the best pet owners on the planet. Yet almost each one assumes that their dog is being disobedient when it does not do what is asked of it. When dogs and owners arrive at my house for the ‘meet & greet’ during which I assess whether we are a good match, I let dogs have a roam around the place and meet other dogs. At some point I want to determine if we share any common language, I offer the dog a treat and ask for a ‘sit’, trying out a couple of common hand signals and body postures for the cue. If the dog does not know how to sit when asked their owner tells me.
Dogs which have been trained and are comfortable may try to gobble up the treat or if I have managed to say or do something the dog understands, they snappily put their butts down. But many dogs will not sit and to date few owners have ever responded with anything other than ‘S/he knows how to sit!’ at which time they usually raise their voice and say, ‘FIDO SIT!’ as if the problem was that their dog did not hear me or needed to be addressed with more forcefulness. Fido may turn his head at the sound of his name and then refocus on me, I am after all the one with the cheese stick, or he turns and goes to his owner, often displaying appeasement body language, unsure why he was just shouted at. For a nervous dog this does nothing to lower their stress level and few dogs can arrive in a new place, be surrounded by strange dogs and humans and not feel somewhat unsure and stressed.
I know that owners feel like they are being tested and that I am checking to see how well trained their dogs are, but I am not. I am looking for common ground to establish a relationship with their dog. I don’t doubt that their dog does know how to sit when asked, but realize that they have not had the chance to practice this behavior in enough places, with enough distractions, being asked by enough people, to be able to perform it their first few minutes with me. But if even great pet owners can be unaware of the fact that dogs do not generalize behaviors easily, what of the other dogs that are living with people quick to assume that their dogs are being disobedient and just as quick to correct/punish them for it?*
When I was growing up, before she headed off to work, my mother would leave pieces of white paper, from small notepads (this was pre-Post Its), on the kitchen counter. After school I would return home to find these pieces of paper with benign chores for me to perform written on them. Dust the woodwork, vac the living room, peel potatoes, and the like, nothing horrible except that they were being requested of a kid who would have preferred watching TV, going outside to play or just do nothing. I began to dread seeing those slips of white paper. It was years later when I realized how I had been conditioned to feel a certain way about those bits of paper.
My mother sent a care package to me while I was away at college. The box made me feel happy and excited to see what was inside. After slicing through the tape that sealed the box I lifted the flaps and there on top of my prizes was a slip of white paper on which she’d jotted a note. I felt my stomach tighten and drop. The note was short and positive, “Enjoy! Love, your mother” yet it had elicited in me the same feeling of dread I had experienced for years as I had when I was growing up and saw those too familiar sheets of white notepaper asking me to do something I didn’t want to do. I knew it made no sense, the box had good stuff in it, but I could not help that initial reaction.
So what, you might ask.
We can create similar feelings of dread in our dogs when we pair training with corrections. For some dogs it may not make much difference, they can tolerate a raised voice or collar yank without so much as batting an eye, but for many other dogs their intial reaction to being ‘trained’ may be an immediate feeling of concern or dread, especially when they do not understand why they are being shouted at or yanked. The timing needed to make punishment effective is not a skill that even many professional trainers have. Unsure of what is expected of them dogs may delay their response, trying to sort out what to do next in order to avoid or prevent the correction. Unfortunately this can create a cycle of increasingly harsher ‘corrections’ which unless the dog catches on quickly, can escalate into a situation which many trainers are familiar with, the owner who professes to have ‘tried everything’ to get their dog to behave the way they want. It’s good for business, but not so good for the dog whose owner throws up their hands and delivers it to the nearest shelter.
While it is important that owners of fearful dogs pay careful attention to how they work with their pets, it’s worth any pet owner reconsidering the use of corrections when training their dogs. It doesn’t mean that you let your dogs go for the cheese on the table, you train your dogs to understand a cue which means stop what you’re doing and check in with me for more information.
As for me and those white slips of paper- I got over it, must have been those peanut butter filled, glazed, chocolate cake treats that began to accompany the notes.
*Punishment is anything that causes a behavior to decrease. Corrections are used to stop behaviors that are not the ones being asked for (stop not sitting!, stop not coming!), so are punishment.